I end this blog as I began 11 months ago. Although my title year representing the Northwest Region is not finished, I now begin a new phase of my journey as International LeatherSIR 2010.
My friends know that I am NOT a title type. At least, that WAS the popular belief. Now I realize that I make the title. There is no "type." Once I thought that titles meant little. Now, I see clearly what a title contest can do. It can help build community.
Eleven months ago I ran for the regional title and, as a result, grew closer to my brother, John. This week, I went on the ILSb ride and met amazing men and women from around the continent. Together we went on our journey. I represent these people as I begin my year. In short, titles can build brotherhood. ILSb's Mark Frazier emphasized this concept over and over again this week.
The experience is truly unique in our busy, Internet world. It is what might be termed a "slow" experience. Like the choice ingredients one uses in the culinary experience of "slow food," ILSb brings together potential family and then turns up the heat. As the process continues, one find himself/herself changed by the flame. It is not instant. And at times one feels quite jostled, much like liquid in a slow boil.
The result: An actual family is created. Not a virtual or rhetorical family. An actual group of brothers and sisters.
A great deal of thanks goes to my great producer and brother, Gene Romaine. My Leather family and my clan. And to my regional community.
Happy Dore Alley!
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